Loving Without Lying. Proverbs 26:28




Loving Without Lying. Proverbs 26:28


“A lying tongue hates those it hurts, and a flattering mouth works ruin.” (NIV)


Love and dishonesty cannot dwell together. Proverbs 26:28 warns us that lying is more than just misleading others—it is a form of harm. Whether intentional or not, deceit erodes trust, damages relationships, and creates an emotional distance that can be difficult to repair.


In the parent-child relationship, honesty is essential. A child who consistently lies may believe they are avoiding punishment or protecting themselves, but in reality, they are breaking down the trust that strengthens their bond with their parents. Likewise, when parents are dishonest—whether through broken promises, half-truths, or deception—they unintentionally teach their children that lying is acceptable. Over time, this leads to confusion, insecurity, and mistrust.


The second part of this verse highlights another form of dishonesty: flattery. Flattering words may seem harmless, but when used to manipulate or deceive, they bring ruin. In families, insincere praise or false assurances can create unrealistic expectations and lead to disappointment. True love does not require deception. Instead, it thrives in an atmosphere of honesty, where words are spoken with sincerity and truth.


To love without lying means being truthful even when it is difficult. It means correcting with kindness, setting an example of integrity, and creating a safe space where honesty is valued. A home built on truth fosters security, respect, and deeper connections between parents and children.



Reflection Questions:

1. Are there areas in your family where dishonesty has caused hurt or distance?

2. How can you cultivate a culture of honesty and integrity in your home?

3. What steps can you take to lovingly correct dishonesty while showing grace and understanding?


Honesty and love go hand in hand. When we commit to loving without lying, we create relationships that reflect God’s truth, bringing healing, trust, and a deeper sense of connection.


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